of all is fair in love and war Meaning and Definition
of all is fair in love and war
Pronunciation
/ɔf ɔl ɪs feɪr ɪn lʊv ənd wɔr/
Part of Speech
Idiomatic phrase
Definition
A phrase used to describe a situation where all methods are allowed or accepted in order to achieve a goal or gain an advantage, often in situations involving conflict, competition, or love.
Examples
- In politics, of all is fair in love and war is often cited as a justification for extreme tactics.
- Sometimes, in love, one has to consider that of all is fair in love and war, and be willing to do what it takes to win the heart of their partner.
Etymology
The phrase is derived from Shakespeare’s play Hamlet, Act 3, Scene 3, where it is said “One may smile, and smile, and be a villain.” The phrase was popularized in the 17th century and has since become a common phrase in English language.
Usage Notes
When using the phrase, keep in mind that it is often used to justify questionable or unethical behavior. Use it sparingly and with caution, as it can be seen as a euphemism for reckless or cowardly behavior.
Cultural References
The phrase has been referenced in numerous films, books, and songs, including Hamlet, which is considered one of the most famous works of Shakespeare.
Idiomatic Expressions or Phrases
- End justifies the means
- Do whatever it takes
Related Words or Phrases
- War
- Love
- Conflict
Collocations
- “He would do whatever it takes in of all is fair in love and war”
Frequency of Use
The phrase is relatively common in English language, especially in formal and academic writing, but less common in everyday conversation.
Common Misspellings
- of all is fare in love and war
- of all is fair in love an war